The joy of being married is the most amazing feeling in the world. Finding that special someone who is there for you no matter what. It's like best friends for life, and you get to share every moment with each other as you continue to grow in your marriage and learn together new experiences. Being married can bring excitement to what is to come in the future and knowing for sure that you have someone with you than it being just you alone.
It's traveling together and starting your own family that makes it the most important feeling to have from there on out. It's sight seeing, new journeys to come and arrive, different sceneries all while being with your soul mate. Makes you as well not want do do anything without them being by your side experiencing the something as you. Moving to a new home, buying a new car advancing in both of your careers. Working together to build your very own empire together.
It's overcoming difficult paths that tried to break you but failed to do so. Knowing that one special person will always help you win battles when needed and never abandoning you. Staying with each other even health wise and never regretting the decision. The joy it is to have one of you pick up where you left off if feeling down and out. Helping you even around the house, the little things that wouldn't seem like much to others but means the world to you both. Those little things hold so much value and so much honor in your relationship.
It's knowing that you can trust each other even with small things. Having honesty with each other and never abusing it. Having that comfort there knowing that you can count on one another makes you both stronger when it comes to both of you against the world. Having back up when things go out of control knowing that you can depend on them when needed.
Quality time with each other and knowing that you love being around each other. Not being aggravated or ill about always being around. The "I can't wait to be home from work " just so they can be with you. Spending time with each other is very important and healthy for marriage. While letting your partner know that they are still the center of your world. Giving the attention you both deserve from each other and knowing that you wouldn't have it any other way is a incredible feeling.
There is so much more to being married to your partner that bring joy. But I believe the most important is love. Being loved by someone you love and adore the same way back. Waking up to them the next morning and having the feeling of " wow, they are here next to me every morning". It's those little things that take up so much of your heart. To me, I believe that marriage should be experienced at least once and hopefully once in every ones life. Because if you find that one person that you tide the knot with and you last for years and years until the end. It leads to inspiration for others that they to can find and have someone. That love does exist. And that it can be a lesson or a blessing. That is how I look at it anyways. Personal opinion. Others may not want marriage or love and that's okay too. No judgement here. But I will tell you myself, I was to, someone who always said love wasn't for me. That I would never find someone who would love me for me and take on the baggage I have. Let me tell you, I was so very wrong.
Be Blessed ♥